Lifelong learning can be hard. And frustrating. Best to remain in kindergarten where there are snacks and nap time and the hardest thing you have to do is tie your shoes. My dad was a lifelong learner; he died at 95 with 1500 books waiting on his kindle. Like him, I itch to learn so many things even when hurdles slow me down. As a founding member of the Joy of Djembe Drumming Ensemble, I’ve played drums around Houston for ten years. And yet, at a recent practice I struggled with getting the feel of the rhythm. I know the notes, I know the melody, I know how to make distinguishing sounds, but my body kept sliding into a groove that my brain knew was wrong. Rather than ask for a hallpass to the bathroom so I could cry in private, I offered a silent pep talk, deleting words like can’t, never, inept, and even flunkie. I wasn’t the only one struggling. I deserved to be there as much as anyone. I put aside ego and learned from the drills until I played in sync with the rest, in the flow and in the right groove. This founder was no longer floundering. At least, until next practice. Be a lifelong learner and be okay with the challenges. If you aren’t struggling, what are you learning?
Quote of the Week…
“A loving person lives in a loving world. A hostile person lives in a hostile world. Everyone you meet is a mirror.” Ken Keyes, Jr. 1921-1995
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