Lifelong learning can be hard. And frustrating. Best to remain in kindergarten where there are snacks and nap time and the hardest thing you have to do is tie your shoes. My dad was a lifelong learner; he died at 95 with 1500 books waiting on his kindle. Like him, I itch to learn so many things even when hurdles slow me down. As a founding member of the Joy of Djembe Drumming Ensemble, I’ve played drums around Houston for ten years. And yet, at a recent practice I struggled with getting the feel of the rhythm. I know the notes, I know the melody, I know how to make distinguishing sounds, but my body kept sliding into a groove that my brain knew was wrong. Rather than ask for a hallpass to the bathroom so I could cry in private, I offered a silent pep talk, deleting words like can’t, never, inept, and even flunkie. I wasn’t the only one struggling. I deserved to be there as much as anyone. I put aside ego and learned from the drills until I played in sync with the rest, in the flow and in the right groove. This founder was no longer floundering. At least, until next practice. Be a lifelong learner and be okay with the challenges. If you aren’t struggling, what are you learning?
Quote of the Week…
“Christmas is a tonic for our souls. It moves us to think of others rather than of ourselves. It directs our thoughts to giving.” B.C. Forbes, 1880 – 1955
Delight in the Light…
Yesterday was Winter Solstice, the shortest day of the year, and yet, it falls during the season of light; candles in various faith traditions flicker amidst strings of bulbs adorning houses and trees. While my family celebrates the birth of the Christ Child (in faith-based as well as commercial traditions), I appreciate and respect other…
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